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Chapter 5 · Close-Quarters Stratagems

反客為主

Fǎn kè wéi zhǔ

Turn the Guest into the Host

General Bao acting out Turn the Guest into the Host
General Bao demonstrates 反客為主 — Turn the Guest into the Host.
反客為主 reverse · guest · become · host

Enter as the guest, make yourself useful and then indispensable, then quietly take over the house.

今 Today

A consultant is hired for a "small advisory role." They learn every system, become the person everyone asks, get pulled into the key decisions — and within a year they're effectively running the department that hired them.

反 When it backfires

Guests who grab for the host's chair get noticed. Move too fast and the real owner remembers it's their house — and shows you the door you came in through.